The moment when I realized that the “ICKs” I’m feeling are not from sleeping too little but rather from MOVING too little! #SelfCareSunday #OnMyWayOut #TouchingTheEarth
Category Archives: sangha
cultivating a community of mindfulness, taking refuge in the full embrace of spiritual companions, nurturing safe, sacred space
embodied wisdom: on self-acceptance
~ from Mentoring: The Tao of Giving and Receiving Wisdom
by C.A. Huang + J. Lynch
In Body Awareness Bootcamp, practitioners are invited to “go deep to come home” and awaken clear comprehension and compassionate action (small steps, sustainable choices). Home, to the center of the self: the heart, where the seeds of self-compassion, self-acceptance, and inner wisdom are bathed in breath and awareness. The invisible thread of breath connects body, heart and mind. As breath blossoms in the body, with our skillful effort, the heart and mind becomes synced with the steady and subtle song of breath. Space is created for all to unravel and unfold into its full expression. Toxins and tensions are freed and released. We feel rooted, connected and resilient enough to embrace our whole selves. We gently shine the light upon the neglected parts, remembering all that makes us complete. Nothing is left out of our loving awareness. Now we freely bloom.
#TheSuchnessofSangha: on “sitting together” ~ thich nhat hanh
Sitting alone is wonderful. Sitting with a friend makes meditation easier.
There is a Vietnamese saying that goes like this: “When you eat rice, you need to have soup.”
When you practice mindfulness, you have to have friends.
When we sit together, we generate a collective energy of mindfulness that is very powerful…
The collective energy is very supportive and effective in helping us gain insight and transform difficulties.
As a practitioner we can benefit from that energy to help us embrace our pain and our suffering.
You can silently say, “Dear Brothers and Sisters in the Sangha, this is my suffering. Please brothers and sisters, please help me to embrace this pain and this suffering.”~Thich Nhat Hanh from “How to Sit”
big sky mind: a constellation of mindfulness
gassho: shining the light on sybil shelton-ford

Kismet. Synchronicity. Divine Intervention. The Power of Intention. Before I even realized I was ready, my teacher appeared! I can get tired of treading the same streets and sometimes look for new routes to explore and new sights to soak in. That day in November 2005, I wandered along a quiet downtown block that I hadn’t walked before and discovered a newly-opened yoga studio offering $5 classes. GASP! An accessible studio with affordable classes in little ol’ Lansing?! Say what?! I made a mental note to check it out as soon as I could.
A couple weeks later, I flipped through the local newspaper to see this radiant Black woman gracing the front page of the business section. She was the owner of the studio I had passed…and she looked like me in shape and ethnicity! (DOUBLE GASP!) I called a dear friend and spiritual confidante in Virginia to share my excitement. Tati knew my spiritual compass had guided me toward the contemplative practice of Buddhism and that I’d recently found what would become my root sangha; however, my study of yoga had been a private and solitary exploration. Tati, who also understood that I could be a “slow burn” with new people and things, immediately declared: “She’s your teacher.”
I liked Sybil instantly and, shortly after I’d begun practicing with her that December, asked if she’d ever consider offering a teachers training. I didn’t have any specific aspirations of becoming a yoga teacher at that moment but could see its potential for healing and building community. Sybil hadn’t ruled it out but was focusing first on getting the studio off the ground.
Fast forward to June 2006, Sybil had hosted a Girls Night Out at the studio and invited me to offer a Reiki share circle similar to those held at the Reiki program I attended before I left New York City three years earlier. It was a lovely body-soul nourishing event filled with asana, laughter yoga, tasty treats, and good conversation. A few days later, I sat down to send Sybil an email to thank her for allowing me to participate and to volunteer to help in any way I could with the studio. Instead I was greeted with a message from her, announcing that she was ready to begin her teachers training program and would like to offer a scholarship to me if I was interested! Um, YEAH!
This month marks 8 years since I began my intensive one-on-one apprenticeship with Sybil. The journey has taken us from apprentice and teacher, mentee and mentor, to friends and collaborators! (Full circle moment: I decided in May to take a summer hiatus and, as soon as I opened Facebook, Sybil’s post appeared in my newsfeed announcing her availability to sub yoga classes, walk dogs or help with gardening!!! ) So I am thrilled to introduce Sybil to the community of devoted practitioners who find refuge with me every Monday evening. Sybil will be bringing a “yummy” spin to Yin + Yang Yoga from 7 July to 28 July.
With a deep gassho, I offer my sincere gratitude to Sybil for being a true sponsor of my teaching, learning, and growing along this path!
How has yoga changed you?
How has your personal practice + teaching approach changed over the years?
When I first started practicing yoga, it was all about the asanas (poses). It was about how it LOOKED, not how it felt.
Now when I practice asana, it is all about the breath. Breath first – pose second. The breath is the precious jewel of all yoga that it often overlooked and this is a true shame. The breath is where the beauty happens.
Also when I first started teaching, I was more concerned about how to sequence classes and would even plan out my classes ahead of time. I remember writing down the sequences on pieces of paper and stuffing them under my mat! I would often check my “notes” to make sure I was on track. Now I teach to the student – to who is in front of me. Sometimes I will ask them for requests, but sometimes I “read” their energy and/or their bodies and the sequence sort of emerges from there. I never plan anymore.
When people ask you about yoga/wellness, what is/are the thing(s) you value the most that you’d like them to know?
Sybil Shelton-Ford is a mother, early childhood educator, yoga therapist + founder of As You Are Yoga. She completed her 200-hour yoga teacher training at the Temple of Kriya Yoga in 2003 and went on to receive advanced training (500 hour) with Integrative Yoga Therapy. She has additional training in Yoga for the Special Child with Sonia Sumar, Chakra Yoga Therapy with Joseph and Lillian LaPage, and Ashtanga Yoga with David Swenson.
Sybil has developed training curricula for teaching yoga to adults and children (including those with special needs) and is currently studying to become a health and wellness coach. She plans to launch her first conscious eating workshop series this fall.
#music for #MellowOutMonday: “Retrograde” | James Blake
…for magic + mindfulness + movement + meditation
AND, most especially, to honor mercury retrograde‘s final day of madness!
embodied practice: walking the labyrinth
we meet to walk in silent contemplation
of earth, cooling our feet
of air, tickling our skin
of water, rushing as sound + current to dampen our ears
of sun, blazing warm on head + hearts
we spiral in + quietly in
stepping
breathing
cleansing
clearing
sorting
settling
centering our awareness on new beginnings, grace, gratitude, friendship
we spiral out, expanding once more
greeting one another on the path
a momentary pause
a deep bow
a gaze into eyes of compassion
we sit then, steady of heart + mind
soaking in the suchness
of the four elements
of dear companions
of movement that awakens understanding
#music for #mindfulness in times of #madness: all is full of love
this has become a beloved + enduring mantra for me on any occasion
but especially when life feels off-kilter…
#YesAllWomen: She’s Someone
embodied practice: “taking refuge in the island of self”
breathing in, i go back
to the island of myself.
there are beautiful trees
there is water, there are birds,
there is sunshine and fresh air.
breathing out, i feel safe.
~thich nhat hanh
Nothing To Do, Nowhere To Go: Waking Up To Who You Are
zen in motion:
as a mountain,
exalted,
resilient,
uplifted,
half moon, waxing: open heart,
balancing: steady of body + heart + mind,
taking refuge in the wisdom of breath,
refuge in the self
~t scott
#MyMellowOutMonday






